Does Taylor Swift have borderline personality disorder?

Taylor Swift – Borderline Personality Disorder?

If you don’t like Taylor Swift, get out of here, please.

We love her!!

But I have always thought that about her… there are many celebrities who have been known to have BPD. Princess Diana, Marilyn Monroe, and Angelina Jolie to name a few… Lady Gaga may be too. You can google it.

There are several comments to argue about whether Taylor has BPD or not. Let’s check them.

She’s turning 27 this month and isn’t close to marriage
Her life revolves around her two cats – She takes them everywhere and admits to being a “cat lady”
She monkey branches from one serious relationship immediately into another serious relationship
She told Rolling Stone “I’ve never had a relationship last longer than 6 months”
She admits to becoming quickly obsessed with bf’s (ex: she bought a house across street from Conor Kennedy after only dating 3 weeks – he broke up with her in less than 3 months saying “her obsession with me freaked me out”)
Dates older men (Calvin Harris 32 when she was 25; Jake Gyllenall 35 when she was 26; Tom Hiddleston 35 when she was 26)
She is extremely skinny (eating disorder?)
She HATES all her exbf’s (widley known to attack them in her songs)

All of her songs are about her love life (“I[ve written all my songs about ex boyfriends, they are my inspiration”)
Her lyrics scream BPD to me and she admits which exbf inspired each song:

  • Blank Space – The song is literally about borderline personality “Magic, Madness, Heaven, Sin – Loves a game wanna play – It’s gonna be forever or go down in flames” (she claims it was a joke but doubt it)
  • We are Never Ever Getting Back Together & All Too Well – “I say I hate you, we breakup, you call me, I love you” (she said inspired by Jake Gyllenhall)
  • I Almost Do – “I can’t say hello to you again to risk another goodbye” Still thinking about calling her ex years later
  • Wildest Dreams – “I can see the end as it begins” an affair with older married man
  • Tim McGraw – “the song we danced to all night long” wrote about exbf Brandon Borello who said “I bought the album and love it but my girlfriend hates it”
  • Picture to Burn – wrote about exbf Jordan Alford who she calls a “redneck”
  • Teardrops on My Guitar – wrote about boy she loved in HS, Drew, but never asked out. She said he heard the song and asked her out later but it was too late.
  • Should’ve Said No – exbf, Sam Armstrong, who she said cheated on her. She covered the album in his name
  • Forever & Always, Last Kiss, Better Than Revenge – all 3 songs about Joe Jonas and even her hatred for his new gf, Camilla Belle
  • Back to December – exbf Taylor Lautner “you gave me roses and all your love and all I gave you was goodbye”
  • I Knew You Were Trouble & Dear John – exbf John Mayer “the saddest fear comes creeping in that you never loved me”
  • Enchanted – axbf Adam Young
  • Begin Again – Conor Kennedy
  • Style – Harry Styles
  • New Romantics – “Life is a classroom, please leave stranded, it’s so romantic”

    etc etc etc

Resource: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=301069.0

 

She certainly seems like a very high-functioning BPD, honestly. The multitude of dysfunctional relationships—friendships/boyfriends. Passive-aggressive remarks. Moments of unbridled histrionic behavior. Never taking responsibility for her actions or wrong-doings. Constantly changing her personality. Demonizing women for how they dress–only to later on wear the same things. Loves playing a victim card—but often times is a very calculated perpetrator. We will never know without an objective diagnosis.

Resource:https://www.quora.com/Does-Taylor-Swift-have-borderline-personality-disorder

 

All these emotions experienced are very intense. You can feel the red, hot, passion, and unconditional love, wrapping itself around you; tantalising your senses with promises of all things that are good. Then the swirling black hole of hatred comes to suck the life force out of you. Yes, it’s tiring putting up with such a tumultuous regiment, which is why people with borderline personality disorder often lose many people that enter their lives. To those of you who stick around through the bad times and not just the good, thanks! *tips hat*

It takes a lot of energy to have a relationship with a person who has BPD and you may wonder why bother if you’re just getting yourself into a boatload of crazy? Why, if this love is just a toxic apple waiting to be bitten into? Well, that’s because no one can love you harder than a borderline person. I can’t make promises of unwavering love, but I can guarantee it’d be unconditional. The love would take you to a completely new world; it’d be an invigorating experience for you when you’re showered with the best our love can offer.

Staying clear of what triggers negative emotional responses might be difficult, but once you (both) understand those triggers, it’d be easier finding stability in a relationship. Although, however deeply a BPD person may love you, I personally don’t think any relationship is healthy if one’s partner is held high on a pedestal. Although idealisation may be better than devaluation, you should be equals (in my opinion).

I’ve been called “crazy” by males of my past. I’ve been told that I can be both the good, fun kind of crazy, and suddenly switch the psychomaniac kind. They’re both afraid and intrigued, but it takes a special kind of person to understand these emotions, yet not enable the chaos. To not appoint themselves as saviour but rather support. To not harbour anger and resentment. Darling I’m a nightmare dressed like a daydream, and it takes a special kind of person to not be afraid when they wake up 😉

Resource: https://thatborderlinegirl.wordpress.com/2014/12/09/darling-im-a-nightmare-dressed-like-a-daydream/

 

Taylor Swift’s song “blank space” – Darling I’m a nightmare dressed like a daydream

If you have BPD, you can feel something by checking her “blank space”…

♫ Cuz we’re young and we’re reckless, we’d take this way too far.

It’d leave you breathless, or with a nasty scar ♫

Nice to meet you, where you been?
I could show you incredible things
Magic, madness, heaven, sin
Saw you there and I thought
Oh my God, look at that face
You look like my next mistake
Love’s a game, wanna play?

New money, suit and tie
I can read you like a magazine
Ain’t it funny, rumors fly
And I know you heard about me
So hey, let’s be friends
I’m dying to see how this one ends
Grab your passport and my hand
I can make the bad guys good for a weekend

So it’s gonna be forever
Or it’s gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it’s over
If the high was worth the pain
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They’ll tell you I’m insane
‘Cause you know I love the players
And you love the game

‘Cause we’re young and we’re reckless
We’ll take this way too far
It’ll leave you breathless
Or with a nasty scar
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They’ll tell you I’m insane
But I’ve got a blank space, baby
And I’ll write your name

Cherry lips, crystal skies
I could show you incredible things
Stolen kisses, pretty lies
You’re the King, baby, I’m your Queen
Find out what you want
Be that girl for a month
Wait, the worst is yet to come, oh no

Screaming, crying, perfect storms
I can make all the tables turn
Rose garden filled with thorns
Keep you second guessing like
“Oh my God, who is she?”
I get drunk on jealousy
But you’ll come back each time you leave
‘Cause, darling, I’m a nightmare dressed like a daydream

So it’s gonna be forever
Or it’s gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it’s over
If the high was worth the pain
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They’ll tell you I’m insane
‘Cause you know I love the players
And you love the game

‘Cause we’re young and we’re reckless
We’ll take this way too far
It’ll leave you breathless
Or with a nasty scar
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They’ll tell you I’m insane
But I’ve got a blank space, baby
And I’ll write your name

Boys only want love if it’s torture
Don’t say I didn’t say, I didn’t warn ya
Boys only want love if it’s torture
Don’t say I didn’t say, I didn’t warn ya

So it’s gonna be forever
Or it’s gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it’s over
If the high was worth the pain
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They’ll tell you I’m insane
‘Cause you know I love the players
And you love the game

‘Cause we’re young and we’re reckless
We’ll take this way too far
It’ll leave you breathless
Or with a nasty scar
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They’ll tell you I’m insane
But I’ve got a blank space, baby
And I’ll write your name

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